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can anyone here help me get a girlfriend ?
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by Urahara Kisuke
on 2006-07-18 10:26:00
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haa......k , here's the story , theres this girl , that i've known since 4th grade (i'm in 9th grade now...) anyway i've always had a crush on her ......But ... i'm not sure she likes me...i know she likes me for a friend , And here's the tricky part , my best friend also LIKES her...i havn't told him that i like her too...so.....er..help?    oh helleo! hahaha, i'm Urahara , DON'T FORGET IT....hahaha |
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well... this will be the problem then... but first... ask yourself... "Would I risk my friendship to start a relationship?"  Kneel Before the Great and Benevolent Cow! |
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by Urahara Kisuke
on 2006-07-18 10:31:35
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ofcourse not...but, would he ? oh helleo! hahaha, i'm Urahara , DON'T FORGET IT....hahaha |
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Then its time to start being Honest to your friend as well before doing the next big step... Its time to let him know that you like her too Kneel Before the Great and Benevolent Cow! |
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by Urahara Kisuke
on 2006-07-18 10:37:23
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wat i'm really asking is .....is there any way too find out if she likes me , without letting her know ? Because , dude i'm don't plan on having a girlfriend in 9th grade ( atleast 10th grade would be good ) oh helleo! hahaha, i'm Urahara , DON'T FORGET IT....hahaha |
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er... but i thought the topic... nevermind... She knows you for 6 years... because of it she knows you better... so its already a plus... Hmm.... But there is a high chance that she might still be considering you as a friend... so its better if you take the initiative yourself and try to let her know that you like her... Im not saying confess your love... or something like that... a few gestures... greetings... go hang out with her more... that sort of stuff... In a discreet way show your affection... not at once but slowly... Then check her actions and reactions towards you... Kneel Before the Great and Benevolent Cow! |
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by Urahara Kisuke
on 2006-07-18 10:47:29
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yea , that's cool . thx oh helleo! hahaha, i'm Urahara , DON'T FORGET IT....hahaha |
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on 2006-07-20 09:42:39 (edited 2006-07-20 09:45:51)
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Lu Bu has a very good point. There is the fact that there's a friendship at risk, but that can sometimes turn out to be the best kind of relationship. I agree, take small steps and see how it goes. You don't want to sit back and be shy, she'll end up dating your friend if he's more straight forward then you. I know my husband started out small when we were in high school. I know he would come up and say, "Hi, Kelly" and be really friendly and then he would give me a brief hug here or there. He started walking me to my classes and we'd talk. Sit with me at lunch and ask me to hang out. Or grab me and pick me up off the ground and joke around about not letting me down. It was really cute and well....he ended up getting my affection. Like Lu Bu said, pay attention to her reactions. More then likely if you start to let on you like her she'll pick it up quickly. Us girls are good at that. If she likes you too, she'll definitly let you know.  |
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eww the title pls? its too~ uhm anyway...it got my attention there r a thing or two that we always like in a guy if its a competition uhm be cheerful as always yet be confident but dnt overdo it.. nd if u really like her fight for it.. thats it.. nd dnt be a baby nd try wasting ur tym in sports for a change? not in a forum i was just joking! ha~ xp  |
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by レン | Ren
on 2006-08-01 03:02:18
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Well well.......Hmmm in situations like this..... You must get her slowly....Like bit by bit... Like Help her do something...or...Help her in her studies.... But at the same time pushing her away slowly from your best freind |
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by Huen ge Choi
on 2006-08-03 22:11:49
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just act urself around her and check her reactions to your actions. pretty much i agree with what the other people have said- show ur affection over time and when the time is right, take the risk |
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| i'm just glad I never have to deal with this crap... |
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Haha, same old Kotuso. I'd say go with everyone elses advice. Be near her alot. Just make yourself part of her life and see if she likes it.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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| About this best friend of yours... You have any idea about how he would react if he knows that you like her? |
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If you really like her, here are 3 things you should NEVER talk about. 1. Weight. 2. Looks. 3. Ex-girlfriends. (Okay, this one, tell her after you've dated for a while.)
PMR...PMR... 1 month...
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Ask her anything that is relevant to relationships, on what type of guy she likes...or if you don't want her to be suspicious, try chatting with her and act as if you two don't know each other, then ask.  |