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Please i desperatly need help
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by Mesousa_san
on 2006-08-03 21:49:20
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hi i havent posted in a while but anyway i need help. Its about a girl that i like I want to confess to her and ask her out and the only way i could do it is through myspace and i think its too cowerdly to do it that way. what do you think i should do. [im a guy by the way] i could really use the help.  |
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by BabyBoiBlue
on 2006-08-03 21:51:44
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A manly man's must do what a manly man's go to do... errr... do I make sense here? ^_^ |
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on 2006-08-03 22:04:51 |
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are you shy? I think you shouldn't be that shy to ask her out.. but still you can go on and ask her out through myspace. But I don't think that what a man would do.. don't you think so? Unless you wanna be mysterious for a while.. (Don't do anything I told you here.. I just giving my opinion. I never really have someone special of even been in love with..)
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by Mesousa_san
on 2006-08-03 22:12:50
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yes i am shy and also i have talked with her in school but now Im going to go to a different school and i wont see her anymore. |
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by BabyBoiBlue
on 2006-08-03 22:15:44
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Be confident... I know you can do it... I don't want you regreting anything that you didn't do........... (Is this right?) |
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by the way, do want you want but don't regret it in the end... i know a guy in the same situation where he chose not to tell the girl and now the girl is gone.. gone far away... and btw that guy is me hehehe. :-)
http://czetsuya-travel.blogspot.com
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on 2006-08-03 22:17:32 |
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hmm.. maybe you give her a gift with a letter of your confession?
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by Mesousa_san
on 2006-08-03 22:21:08
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you think that would work |
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I recommend going to my space and not confessing, but asking her for her online messenger info and email. Talk to her privately there. Just talk to her there for a while get to know her more and eventually confess. To let you know thats what me and my girlfriend do. We use MSN messenger and Skype. We even go to gendou sometimes and make happy posts with each other.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Try and get her MSN address or something (like what Jomunga suggested). Try and get to know her better and try to arrange some activities you two can do together. That way, you can have fun and get to know her better so that you know whether it's really ok to pop the question.
PMR...PMR... 1 month...
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Hm...try to get her cel number, then ask her out ^_^;;  |
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on 2006-08-04 03:30:14 |
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i agree with immpy.one of my friend use short messange to contact with the girl he likes...^+^     |
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I had the same problem around 5 years ago... And like czetsuya, i now lose track of that girl...T_T But she's already going out with another guy, so i had little chances anyway... What about your case? She's not seeing other guys is she? If she's not, then it'll be easier to confess... But to make sure you don't lose track of her, do ask for her msn address or anything that you can contact her with... |
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the best way to confess to a girl is to say it in person. that is, if you can actually meet her and talk to her. that will make her feel that you're serious about liking her and wanting to be with her. besides, building up courage to say those words will make her feel more important and special to you. sending some text messages will just make her think that you're not so serious about asking her out, i mean, anyone can do that, right? you'll have to think of something more special and memorable. if its an online relationship, i suggest you talk with her, as in instant messaging. make sure you really know her well and you're really serious in having a relationship with her if you want your relationship to last long. so, ganbatte ne~  |
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yeah,get her msn or sumthg,gt to noe her a lil more.then ask her to go out,casually,before confessing.make her feel comfy wth u 1st. ganbate to u~ ^^ |
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on 2006-08-04 12:17:20 |
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Wow, this is just creepy I was thinking of doing the same thing here. The only difference is that I already have confessed my love. I was thinking however, to do a blog post or something saying it again, but I decided against it. The thing is that when you do something like confess your love it's best done in person. The body language and what-not are more important than what you say. If you're like jomunga here; and have skype, a webcam, and a mic; you can talk to her essentialy in-person but not really. It's as close as you can get without actually going to her. Basicaly, do what jomunga (and pretty much everyone else) says, he(they) has(have) lots of practice at this stuff. |