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hey, i got some sort of problem..anyone willing to help me to solve it? ok there's two problem i'm facing now.. first, i'm in love with one of my classmates..whenevr i saw him surrounded by girls, i started to feel angry ...i don't know why.. second,pmr is coming in less than a year?what should i do?i can't seem to concentrate in my studies..all i think about is the guy i like..i try to control myself not to think of him, but it just can't seem to work..please help me to solve these two problem,thanks, arigato gozaimasu..sayonara~~ |
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Well... clearly you are Jealous... it seems that your problem is revolving around this guy... But first of... details... details... give us details... Whats your relationship with this guy?(Friend? Close friend? or just a classmate?) How long have you two known each other? etc... We cant solve this with the lack of details and whats this "pmr"? (Prom? Exams? what?)  Kneel Before the Great and Benevolent Cow! |
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on 2006-11-14 07:24:32 |
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@Lu Bu- From what I know PMR is a series of tests, pretty much exams. Well, like Lu said, your first problem, well that's just jealousy. Probably a heavy case of it judging by the fact your angry whenever you see him surrounded by girls and you can't stop thinking about him. For the second problem, if it's affecting you that much to the point where you can't focus, then you need to tell him how you feel. Although personally I don't believe you could be THAT in love with him as to not be able to focus on anything but him.    |
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by S-a-c-h-i-e-l
on 2006-11-14 07:29:58
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*smacks Jonathon friendly-like* Yes, it is possible to love someone so much that that's all you can think about. I know myself =^.^= Well, I agree with the lack of details, however the first thing I thought of was "Why not study WITH him?" That way you could get your studies in and also put yourself in his scope of "Girls I know and like".  |
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Hmm... i think... if she studied with him... she probably wont be able to concentrate even more... she might get too confused with her emotions... Kneel Before the Great and Benevolent Cow! |
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by SuicidopoliS
on 2006-11-14 14:18:26
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Listen to The Cure - The Same Deep Water As You... Cry out loud because of the emotions you'll feel you never even thought a human COULD feel... Then, after that *joyous* experience ( sic ), listen to William Shatner - You'll Have Time; and 9 chances out of 10 it'll give you the courage to ask that guy everything you wanted to ask him! Seriously, that last song is my "potion of strength" whenever i don't have the guts to do something like that. .oO° Life's THE CURE, the rest are details! °Oo. |
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| oh well, its just my classmate..i never did talk to him before..so, donno quite much about..anyway, maybe i should give up and stop liking him..in that way, maybe i can concentrate in my schoolwork..is that okey?give some comment..please..i'm begging u to do so.. |
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by antisocialmoth
on 2006-11-14 20:49:39
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| If you've never talked to him before then you'll probably get over it soon... If you still get distracted, look at another guy and ask yourself why not him? |
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why do you like this guy? is he super cute? ^^ is he really nice? i bet he's really cute if you can't stop thinking about him... hmmmn. what does he look like??? and you don't have to give up liking him because if you have your heart set on him, you should get to know him and see if he's worthy of your affection. my last question is what is love? (to you?) (goes off singing and insistently bobbing head. "what is love?, baby don't hurt me.... don't hurt me")  |
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I say point a shotgun at his head and tell him you love him. I think you will get a reply you like.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by S-a-c-h-i-e-l
on 2006-11-15 07:37:34
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Well, it depends on how compassionate he is; if he finds out that a girl is always thinking about him and is doing worse in school because of it, he might feel obligated to help her, and then, overtime, he may come to like her as well. But I do agree it might put him in an awkward position if you confess... So I still vote for getting to know him and having him get to know you in a sort of "friends" way, and just hope that he ends up liking you. However... if you confess to him after you've spent a lot of time with him, and he rejects you... Then it'd just be more painful. Do what you think is best? XD |
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hum..first of all you have to know the possibilities of having a relationship with that guy. is he still single? what kind of girl does he like? how do you really feel about him? is it just a crush? is it because his cute face? is it because he's a nice guy? and how much do you like this guy? its hard to create a relationship with a guy you barely talk to. as for your study, it should be your first priority. maybe you should forget about him for a while (i know this is hard, but its for your own good) and concentrate on your study. it wont be worthy to fail a very important exam just because of a guy. love your future first before you love this guy.  |
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Confessing will end things quickly... but in your case... since you aren't that close... chances of acceptance is real low... this is quite one of the hardest positions yet.... You and him being "Only as classmates" and nothing more is just like an acquintance... You always gotta start real slow with this... being agressive in this situation is too risky... you got to take a deep breath and control your emotions for a moment... think things out for a bit... you should start by learning more with each other while its still early then decide if the risk is worth it.... slowly but surely you'll get to understand each other and thats when you decide... you could forget about him... yes... but you might regret it later... whats wrong with getting to know with one another anyways? Everything will fall into place (as well as your problems with the exams) since they all revolve around your feelings for this person... Kneel Before the Great and Benevolent Cow! |
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I agree with Lu bu entirely. I know of a couple people that went through the same situation and most did the same thing as what Lu Bu hypothesized. now they are loving couples. So it would be best to do what you believe is right. Follow your heart and learn more of the person you love. If he truly fits what you believe in then he is yours, but be wary, things may not be what they seem. -__-  |
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by tiduslovesash
on 2006-11-15 19:23:19
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I think if u like that guy and u never tried to talk to him, now is ur chance...and maybe u might discover u don't like him at all, and if that's the case, then at least u'll get a new friend. But if u realize u like him a lot...well...then start from the beginning and be his friend first, step by step... Hope this help u C ya Vivian |
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Of course Confessing to a total stranger is awkward... But It is still uncetain if he actually doesnt like her... The fact that they arent communicating/close doesn't already mean he does not like her... thats why its better to at least get to know each other... Kneel Before the Great and Benevolent Cow! |
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Exactly. Though strangers, the only way to bridge a gap is to form a bridge. Thus, to know and love a person, you have to bridge the unknown gap. Talk to know and understand. That is the only way you can actually set yourself a path with him or not. |
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on 2006-11-17 06:43:09 |
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Although I never expereinced that one, I agree with everyone else...^^   
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on 2006-11-17 06:55:12 |
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even i dont understand the situaation but i agree with evryone additional tip Think first before act Very decision we made has its own consequences... Facing consequnces is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of being a human...  --> |