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Unrequited Love
Link | by ibtxhis on 2005-11-08 19:42:12
How do you bury the part of your heart that longs for the one you love so completely, but can never have?

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Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by S-a-c-h-i-e-l on 2005-11-08 21:17:02
Heh, sounds like Ketsuki in The Depression Thread Continued. Try reading his stuff, if you can bear going through 200+ posts ^_^;


Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by ketsuki on 2005-11-09 20:45:13
i wish i had an answer for you ibtxhis, if i new how, i would have done it a long time ago. but since i dont, im still suffering


Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by night_link on 2005-11-09 21:05:18
I'm went through that once. It's all up to you. You can detach and not feel regret. Another thing you can do is change that kind of feeling.

What I meant by the last suggestion is a lot like those in anime. For example, in Ranma 1/2, Shampoo never won the heart of Ranma, but still remained a friend to him and she still had Moose who cared very much about her. Sorry, if you've never seen or read Ranma 1/2!

It's great to see you here ibtxhis. There's lots of people here to help with whatever problem anyone's got.

Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by S-a-c-h-i-e-l on 2005-11-09 22:25:56
Oh, ibtxhis, I just realized you're new here! Welcome to Gendou, and the people here are friendly as heck. Well, a few aren't, but overall it's a good place! Welcome!


Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by Jomunga on 2005-11-10 19:33:10 (edited 2005-11-10 19:35:36)
I would say dont bury it. Maybe some Marmalade Boy references would help, but I don't wanna spoil it for you. Get over it, don't bury it. Or keep trying like Shampoo, Mousse, Ryoga, Ukyo, Kuno, and Kodachi does even if you know you will always be the friend. Or watch Ranma and have a good time. The thing is Ranma never ends, so neither does the chase.

Welcome, ibtxhis.

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Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by capzran on 2005-11-11 02:35:14
it's a waste if you bury it...

they laugh at us because we are different, we laugh at them because they are all the same!!! KAWAIIIII!!!

Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by lady_rin on 2005-11-11 07:13:26
Getting married when I did the are a lot of things I have never experienced. Unrequited love is one of them.

I woldn't even know waht to say to someone.


Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by Sturm on 2005-11-11 09:04:42
well there is a short term solution (all seriousness)

quick relationships with plenty of sex (like one night stands except with boy/girl friends that last for about a week)

works for most people but beware the consequences

"Empires rise and fall, but evil is eternal"

Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by Jomunga on 2005-11-11 10:13:04
I cannot agree with sturm on this one at all.

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Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by ketsuki on 2005-11-16 21:26:17
what sturm says works, but in the end it make you feel worse then how you started


Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by zparticus27 on 2005-11-17 04:23:31
just move on i guess...it's better than poundering on the inevitable...

Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by 茂樹 on 2005-11-17 08:34:08
i go out with friends.
watch anime.
listen songs and sing them loudly.
play my games.
do pull ups.
beat my stomach.
anything else you wanna add? ^^

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Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by Jester on 2005-11-21 09:58:31
hit your self on the head with a 2x2.

Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by zparticus27 on 2005-11-22 02:55:24
hahaha!thats a good idea!give yourself amnesia!

Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by Immortal on 2005-11-22 05:07:24
no matter how much you forget about your love, the love you gave will never disappear in you...

or just watch more anime...you could get something there that could help you...just like I did...

Never forget the one whom you truly loved the most. People change but memories will never fade

Re: Unrequited Love
Link | by desertranger on 2005-11-22 07:25:09
Absoplutely true. I had an unrequited love, she married my best friend a year before I met Rin.


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