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Hitting on a japanese girl
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well, theres this japanese girl in my japanese class, don't get the wrong idea, i took the class because i like the language/culture, not to hit on japanese girls, i don't even like asian girls in particular, but this one is an exception. anyways, she's still new to this country and i don't know a whole lot about the culture, so i'm not sure how to make my move. To be honest, i've been trying to avoid it this whole semester, but finals are next week so i might lose my chance.. yea its sad, i know, you're welcome to make fun of me. if you help me out, i'd REALLY appriciate it.  |
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by night_link
on 2005-12-07 17:49:29
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| Are you at the same place I am to take this class?? |
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?? um.. i don't know, what school do u go to? |
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by night_link
on 2005-12-07 20:52:47
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Are you in southern California in Ventura? Sorry back to you. Basically have you talked to her anytime the whole semester? Try to get her email or something at least or find out if she is still going to continue the class. Or... introduce her to gendou and at least there is the Japanese section if she feels more comfortable there. Hope this helps. |
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i live in northern cal, bay area. she's actually the tutor :-/ and i haven't talked to her that much. its not hard for me to get someones attention most of the time, i can be funny/interesting if i want and start up a conversation, but this girl is like a stone wall, i like that part about her, but goddamn, how am i going to get though to her. would it be too korny to tell her that i like her in japanese? :P |
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by blightraider
on 2005-12-07 23:07:44
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Interesting thread this is. Have Faith(pun intended) that i can help u through this. I sort of have experience being a full time Pick Up Artist before i settled down with my current gf. If u can open ur mind to my advice, let mi know. Ok? Hmm... but to be honest no one can really help u if u dont tell us what kinda guy u are and wat kinda girl she is...^^  |
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man just talk to her more? and err if you don't know some jap (act like it, meh) ask her for help lol. thats how i hit on them :p well er i am asian >.>  |
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by
on 2005-12-08 00:46:47 (edited 2005-12-08 00:47:21)
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If she needs help in some particular subject, you can try offering her ur help. Or if she good at some subject u can pretend to b completely dum and hv her help u. Dont know if that was much help but.... 
I prefer being alone so do me a favor and leave me be.... |
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by TheSubsect
on 2005-12-08 01:14:32
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| You could create a conspiracy, make some of your friends(25 recommended) pretend to attack her and then you come in with sun glasses and black coat beat them all up. After you gain her trust, she would thank you and thats the time where you should play "hard to get", then let things flow through. |
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bah outta question, too dramatic XD |
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by
on 2005-12-08 01:18:37 |
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Hehehe i was thinkin of sayin that aswell Zephyr, but chances r she wont believe it. 25 guys vs 1 guy... My money`s on 25 guys. Hahaha
I prefer being alone so do me a favor and leave me be.... |
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by blightraider
on 2005-12-08 01:25:45
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How cliche...AFC methods. Nvm. Best u follow the 3 second rule and make a spontaneous impression that will last even if u are a nervous wreck later. Leave no room for either of u to hesitate. |
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well.... bet the money on me if i'm on 25 guys. they're owned without fighting me. |
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lol, yea, my money is on the 25guys too :-/ hontoni arigato for all the replys. tell me more about the 3 sec rule!! :) I'm a nice quiet guy and shes a nice quiet girl. her english is so-so, but her japansese is perfect. my japanese sucks, but i can make sentences and have a good 50+ vocab. i think i can tell her that i like her, or want to go out, ect. but i'm not sure if she'll find it cute, stupid, or (SERIOUSLY hope not) creepy. i don't want to be the creepy guy!! |
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by blightraider
on 2005-12-08 03:02:44
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Ok here goes... In ur situation there are 2 approaches... 1) If u aim to exploit the 3 second rule(which is a faster approach with higher margin of failure depending on ur character) you have to create a MOMENT. Keep in mind that u have to carry conversations well and most of your relationship will be based solely on ur personality. Its imortant that u try to be consistant in how u behave with her(as in dun 1min act like a quiet guy then suddenly act cool the next min). This is how 3sec rule works. Normally a guy would stand from afar and only approach his target after MUCH thought, planning and self-composition (common AFCs). With 3 second rule... when u see ur target dont hesitate or deliberate(literally take 3 secs) when u approach her. IMPORTANT: NO CHEESY PICK UP LINES AND PLS MAKE EYE CONTACT! A simple "Hi^^Would like to have dinner with mi?" will suffice. This will catch her TOTALLY and UTTERLY off guard because when u take time to analyze her she will have time to build up a good resistance. Chances are that she will agree.From that point on....its all YOU. But youll be less prone to rejection as she was already impressed by ur spontaneous proposal. or 2)This one's easy just be a PERFECT but not PREDICTABLE GENTLEMAN. Do things that will REALLY please her but do not appear to be a flirt or even look like ur after her. Over time u will generate an atmosphere that will give her a sense of security. She will let her guard down near you. Then, out of the blue, you ask her out.Even if she rejects u, you would already have built up an impressive reputation that other girls might fall for. Both these techniques require u to read and send signals to/from ur target. If u cant,.....u might be totally barking up the wrong tree. Test the waters even before u think of executing someting. DONT ASK HER OUTRIGHT WHETHER SHE HAS A BF OR WHETHER SHE"S ATTRACTED TO U. Simply slip in ur conversations with her that u are single and talk to her about relationships(friends/clicks) soon enuff ull know all that u need to. Phew....Anything else....ask mi. OK? Any questions? |
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by TheSubsect
on 2005-12-08 04:11:17
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| You could always say that you have 3 days to live, then she would feel sorry for you and go out with you then during that time, you could make your move, she'll be so happy that she wouldn't even care that you lied to her, she'll probably even thank you for it *coughbullshit* |
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eep! thats the 3sec rule? there isn't much time so i'm gonna try it that way then. there's a bulba place next to school, i'll just invite her there. major thx for the details faith! btw, how would i go about asking for her email or phone.. maybe its better to ask for her email over phone :-/? should i do it before we're about to leave or while we're talking, u know, just suprise her? |
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by
on 2005-12-08 09:31:18 |
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3sec rule?
Lol Tiem~
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by
on 2005-12-08 09:38:56 |
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Ah I see.thats easy just go to here but wait theres more ,since she is a tutor u should hit her slowly until she realize it or just tell her,here's a tip.when u talk try to be relaxed and listen carefully ......really careful bcoz guys mind tends to wanderoff other places and careful with the eye contact make her feel safe and not thjnking that u r sick......go ahead and try,it works for me maybe it would do to u too .mine is not a tutor though
Lol Tiem~
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on 2005-12-08 09:40:49 |
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ask da phone after u invite her and send her home
Lol Tiem~
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