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is age really a matter in love?
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| i fell in love with someone older than me almost 20 years, most of the people around me, including my mom said this is impossible cause the distance between age and physical already are the obstacles to the relationship... by the way, we live far away from each other... |
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it depends... Who is older? And r u a guy or a girl? Usually, when the guy is older, it's kinda okay... 20 years difference? As long u two really love each other, I guess it'll work somehow... But 20 years? Geez, that's a HUGE difference...  |
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on 2006-01-30 06:30:59 |
interesting situation you have... hmmm… age can definitely be an obstacle but always remember "true love conquers all" 
“I am the wisest man alive, for I know one thing, and that is that I know nothing.†|
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Ranger is almost 20 years older than I am. We fell in love in a single night and were married a couple of months before my 20th birthday. Your age is an important factor in this, however I feel if you are over 16 you are capable of deciding if you are in love for yourself, although I do think you should wait until your 18. As for love at a distance, that is very difficult, especially if you havn't touched each other. I also think love without physical contact of some sort is doomed to failure. I found it very difficult when Ranger was on assignment somewhere and gone for a few months, especially when we couldn't contact each other.  |
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| oops... forgot to tell... i'm a girl... 18 years old... he is older... and we are different races, religions... but dunno why... i really like him a lot... is just sometimes is hurt to think any possibility that i couldn't be with him... by the way... rin... your love is really romantic... so envy you... *sob* |
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on 2006-01-30 10:09:34 |
I was only a year older than you. We are the same race, he is American and I am English. We are of different faiths and cultures, the only common bond there is language (I think). Americans really are different than normal people.  We are so total opposites of each other even our friends call us Cutey and the Beast. I am now 42 and he is 60. For better or worse til death do us part. The only thing you have going against you is distance. |
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-01-30 15:32:46
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TOTALLY AGREE!!! AGE DOESN'T MATTER!!! DOESN'T MATTER!!! DOESN'T MATTER!!! YOU HEAR ME???!!! OK, I'M JUST IN A BAD MOOD...SORRY... |
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| thanks... guys... yours replies make me have some confidents... yeah... lady rin was right, the only thing we should get over is distance... but we are nothing alike... no matter language or life style... but i guess these are not really a problems... at least i hope they are not... you know what... we know each other through chatroom... ^_^ |
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Hey hey, finally someone sees like me. I posted this on the Depression thread. I fell in love with someone 6 years older. I was really happy when he told me he loved me. But I was pretty sure things wouldn't work out and I was correct. He moved back to Japan 5 days ago and I also found some disturbing news before he left. It is weird how I felt after. I still have feelings for him, but they are so faded from what I heard. But I don't think age loves. Just as long as you truly love him.
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I would like to thank everybody for agreeing with me before I even have a chance to post... wait, that means I agree with everyone here. The truth is age, race, distance, ect doesn't matter IN love. However they are things that get in its way. They are mere obtsacles which were made to be jumped over, gone around, or broken through. Backbeat says it all.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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by overlordsero
on 2006-01-30 19:56:47
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Yeah I dont think age should matter...... I love Eternal for the way she is.... not how old she is or what she looks like. 
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No doesn't matter. One question: If you hadn't known his age, would you stil love him? (I think we already know the answer) 
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| yeah... i guess i would... i love him for him... but sometimes my love will too blind... that's what my mom said... |
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hmm..personally, the most important thing in a relationship is the bond between the two person. Therefore, I believe love always outweighs beauty, age, wealth, etc... one of my favorite quote, "age aint nothing but a number right?" So dont be too concern about the age differences. I'll be wishing you and your lover the best.
I was once told, live life to the fullest. But how can I without you by my side.
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| thanks... lain... |
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| think you should wait for a while..cuz i mean 20 years? that is really big range...but i dont htink age matters ..only things is distance |
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by omodekili~
on 2006-01-30 20:38:51
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Just like everybody else has been saying, age should not play the deciding factor when it comes to the common question of whether you love him or not. But, if you guys only know each other through the internet and haven't really spent time with each other in real life... You might want to hold up on that decision. Spend time with the guy first and get to know what he's -really- like because anybody can fake their personality through the internet. Keep in mind that this is over a long distance too! I don't mean to discourage you at all, but I don't want you to deeply regret any things or actions you may do now in the future. Best of luck to you two! <3 |
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| yeah... you are right... MK... he said he probably will come here... but i'm not sure whether he will comes or when he comes... and the worst is... he is getting divorce with his own wife... not because of me... when i met him, he is already separated with his wife by working in anotehr place... so... is kinda complicated... |
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on 2006-01-31 05:46:32 (edited 2006-01-31 17:47:56)
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Love is blind, It doesn't care you you are rich, poor, fat, thin. To a true love it doesn't matter who or what you are only that he/she is there for you. A good exsample is tuesday nevenings. For years I worked at a company called Geotech. That was a 150 mile drive both ways and several days a week I didn't get home until after 9:00pm. Ranger always hated that. He once told me he couldn't stand coming home to an empty house, haviong dinner and then going to bed before I got in. that's one reason why I changed jobs. Now It's Tuesday nights. It's my turn to come home to an empty house, to make my own dinner and wait for Ranger to come home. I am finally learning after all these years how he felt to be in an empty house. I have never liked being separated from Ranger. Noe do I like being at home alone in the eves. It doesn't matter if he[s going tobe back in a few hours or not. I dont like being apart from him. Love is blnd. That's for sure. |
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| Lady Rin, you and Ranger are so lucky for having each other... i guess not all couple will be like you two... still deeply in love with each other even after a long time... i hope my love could be like yours... so envy... haha... your love is beautiful... |