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An antisocial kittykat...?
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AHHHH...I don't get it. And by it I mean that my mom says I need to talk to people more. To people I don't ever talk to, the ones who already think I'm an antisocial freak who still watches "cartoons." I share no common ground with them, but when I don't talk I come off as unfriendly. What would I sound like, never noticed yet suddenly go up to somebody and talk about nothing? Or worse yet, about a topic I actually like and then sound super enthusiastic and even more of a loony?...But I'm social here because I'm not "crazy" here; nobody at home gets that!!... Does anyone else ever feel that way? |
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| I feel the same way as you, people at School has other interests then me. I example, love to be on my own, while others like to be 'social' |
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by S-a-c-h-i-e-l
on 2006-02-24 09:44:40
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That's why I'm more or less doing both; being social and watching anime all the time XD It kinda contradicts though, because most people reject anime before they've seen any of it. So I usually keep quiet about it and talk about whatever they want and hope they say something about them liking it XD PS: You're never crazy if you think you sound crazy XD  |
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Some people i know prefer disney animation instead of anime, they said anime is lousy because most of the time (especially when they are speaking) only their mouth are moving, so i just kept quiet and thought "oh, you have no idea what you're missing" 
'Que sera, sera, Whatever will be, will be The future's not ours to see,Que sera, sera' |
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I have many friends, some like anime and some don't. The ones that don't like it, don't rag on me for liking it, they just don't take part in anime conversations I have with other friends.
Wise Man says: "Take a dog off its leash and it will wander."
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by overlordsero
on 2006-02-24 12:57:16
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I just have a hard time talking at all. "You're never crazy if you think you sound crazy XD" uh....I am crazy so that means I sound crazy which means I am not crazy??? 
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by eternaltorture
on 2006-02-24 15:45:55 (edited 2006-02-24 15:47:48)
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no hard time talking except when i have to do a speech in front of the class, but once i warm up, i have no problem.. but, i like being alone...but, ppl won't leave me alone!!! ex: reading a good book, and then my friends started asking me about stuff like boys, clothes, and etc. i mean :CAN'T THEY SEE I'M READING!!! P.s ...i don't get it.. |
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I have a hard time conversing as well, and I perfer to be alone. PEOPLE never seem to understand, but to hell with anyone who thinks im. CRAZY I dont much give a crap, about what people think about me.
a. bai
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I like to talk with people, but I'm not usually the one who starts a conversation. I'm not anti-social, just shy.    |
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by kageno_tsuki
on 2006-02-24 18:26:41
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it's nice talking to a lot of people, when i get comfortable with a person, i talk a lot. but when i meet a person for the first time, i talk little. i talk a lot when im with friends.. All of them... they seem so perfect...yet so fake... |
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Thanks everyone :/ (<--I hope that's the right sort of face for "relieved yet uggghhhhh ^^)...I'm glad I'm not totally alone in this talking problem. I know I shouldn't care too much of what others think, but it's their opinions that can one day take partial-almost all control of my future......-_- I'm sorry for sounding so depressed!! It's just SO frustrating sometimes...... So, HUZZAH FOR GENDOU-SAMA AND THE GENDOU FORUMS!!!! |
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konnichi-nyaa I wish I was social. Just I can never initiate a conversation. Once someone talks to me I can easily start talking with me, but that never happens. I sit alone hoping someone would just do something that would allow us to have a conversation. Something about me just makes people stay away, maybe it is because it looks like I could start killing any second.  Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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in real life... i'm pretty sure myself that i have no problem in socializing, if i wanted to, but being together with a bunch of people is just not my cup of tea. i somehow prefer to be alone. also, i feel that i might sound offensive when i open my mouth and start talking (judging by my observations on many of my friends' way of thinking, as well as the fact that most of them are not into japanese stuff), so i'd rather keep quiet and be myself.
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i'm really talkative only in the phone but when i'm talking to other people in front of them i dont talk at all in the phone i can last 7 hours continiously in personal i CANT LAST 5 minutes its weird....
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I like this kind of socializing much better^^ Sharing interests really helps.....And Jomunga-san, that's weird ^^...It's the same with me!! I didn't think I was scary or anything but even by brother hints I scare people away because I glare and ooze evil-aura. And I think, "That's not a glare!! Talk to me!! I'm interesting!! REALLY!!" |
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I can talk well on msn messenger. Anyone is free to add me, even if you have no reason to feel free to talk too me. I don't leak out that evil aura on gendou forums or msn messenger. Which is why I can talk so freely. And my natural glare is not here either. Jomunga eats your avatars. |
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Hmm...I should see about that MSN stuff...*sigh*I procrastinate a *teeny* bit sometimes ^__^ And you're right, there is no glare here...Maybe because nobody can see my eyes ^^ or apparently evil facial expressions O_o |
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LOL. i think the evil aura surrounds my entire family.. *gasps* i'm not sure if the phenomena's in our genes, but all of us (except for my mom i guess) have poker-faces which sometimes freak people (mostly strangers) out. nevertheless, after knowing each other, people find us more friendly than they've expected (i hope). anyway, this is what makes the virtual world convenient. people can't SEE you when you chat. unless you and your mates are using webcam or stuff like that...
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kittykat, it is a common misconception that antisocial personality disorder refers to people who have poor social skills. it is actually kinda a manipulative disorder. as long as you dont have those symptoms, you are no antisocial whatsoever^_^= 1.Breaks the law repeatedly 2.Lies, steals, and fights often 3.Disregards the safety of self and others 4.Demonstrates a lack of guilt 5.Had a childhood diagnosis (or symptoms consistent with) conduct disorder. i hope you are NOT antisocial then^_^ i guess you are just shy in front of people..i was very shy in my early teens...which i think is very common in teens..i still remembered, there was a sports event in my school..and i really loves netball!^_^but i didnt have any friends to accompany me.what i did was pretty pathetic where i tagged along a group of girls and tried to start a conversation with them..it was like 4 out of 7 of them totally ignored me and gave me the 'leave-me-alone,dork!' look.but then some of them were really nice to me and talked to me bout netball and stuff.at that time i really felt that i was accepted which is the best feeling in the world.lol.in fact one of them is my bestfriend right now^_^. i learnt to grow out of my shyness when i left school.i learnt to open up, trust people and have fun making more friends..and yeah, talking with someone with the same interests really helps..i also used to hang out with girls who claimed they were popular and cool just to 'fit in' the cool crowd, and they were like, stereotyping and classifying people e.g fashion victim, nerds, dorks etc which was soooo stupid and cruel..so i left them and hangout with my cool bestmates instead..trust me, being 'dorky and loving it' is waaaay better than being 'cruel coolies'.. whoops..im blabbering too much..nyahaha... sorry^_^' so kittykat,hope you can find people who are worth to be called ' TRUE FRIENDS'^_^  |
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Good news: I'm don't fit 1-5!!!!!............I guess I am just way too shy...And the school I go to is so small that I can't find anyone to talk to; everyone has their own groups...Or I could talk, but not be talked to in return... I can't wait till college. ^_^And then I'll find people to talk to "physically" and "virtually" (No way I wanna leave here ^o^!!!!) In the meantime, huzzah for 1. me not having a scary disorder, 2. computers blocking evil auras and 3. Gendou forums!! I appreciate it SO MUCH when people read what I have to say and not think, "What a loser." ^o^ MUCHAS GRACIAS MIS AMIGOS/AS DE INTERNET(I take Spanish, haven't learned any Japanese yet)!!!! |
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