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Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 10:54:19
Hi,anyone knows how to make friends other then in school?cz i'm 14 yrs old and i'm not studying(i quit school at 13),so situation makes it very hard for me to make friends,anyone knows any way please tell me,i am going to go crazy soon(yes,i'm serious)being alone at home one whole day on the damm laptop surfing the net every single day...so if anyone knows a way,please please tell me,thank you.

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Crossfade on 2006-04-12 10:57:08 (edited 2006-04-12 10:57:50)
You could always randomly hang out with ppl ? Get to know friends of your friends go hang around or something it doesn't matter , the best way to know people if you're not in school is by getting a job , dont worry I get where you're coming from Im a school drop out as well . Where are you from btw?

Edit : Here at gendou , we are all your friends =)


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 10:59:16
i'm from singapore,the problem is,i practically have no friends at all,cz after PSLE(before going into secondary school)i got seperated with all my friends cz we ended up into different sec schools.

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Crossfade on 2006-04-12 11:00:34
Try to keep back in contact with them? Or try and get a job x3


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 11:04:07
lol,its been 2 yrs since i lost contact with them,getting back in contact is impossible,and getting a job is out of the question also,cz i'm only 14 yrs old and all the part time job advertisements i saw,needs to be at least 16 yrs and above of age,*sigh*any tips or suggestions?(i'm going to suffer from depression soon if i keep staying at home without anyone to talk to=.=)

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Crossfade on 2006-04-12 11:05:45
Hang out with friends of your cousins or something? I dont know . Hahahah or get to know some of the singaporean gendou-ians x3


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by gemmy_adik on 2006-04-12 11:06:48
@tenshisenshi
wow..i guess you're really serious at that..well, there's a lot of ways..but i can't list them all.. just go out of your house..i guess..uhmm...grr... i can't think right now... my mind isn't workin'...
i really want to help you...it's just my mind isn't working right now..i'll try later... :(

and another thing..we can be friends!!! i'm only 15yrs old... =)

1,3,7-trimethylxanthine addict. they tried to make me go to rehab, I said no, no, no. =D

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 11:07:28
i'm not in good relations with my relatives unfortunately...*sigh*

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 11:09:30
lol,yea,we can be friends,just that i need to have real life friends=.=i have zillions,maybe infinite of internet friends=.=but 0(yes,zero)real life friends=.=

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Crossfade on 2006-04-12 11:13:50
Mind if I ask you something, if its not too personal .. Why did you quit school anyways? I guess you should just go out there and see what the world has to offer you x3 hahah or maybe you should really try and keep in touch with your relatives or something x3


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 11:19:46
had a fight with my math/form teacher,out of a large chunk of subjects,passed only arts subject=.=,teachers called my mum to school and i knew i was gonna get kicked out of school cz they asked my mum to find another damm school for me,so i quit the following week.as i have said,i am not in a good relation with my relative,i don't even bother to go visit them during chinese new year=.=(i am not a gangster or something mind you,lol,just a normal(not going to be normal very soon)drop out.

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Crossfade on 2006-04-12 11:29:12
So.. What you're saying here is you cant get into another school? The school kicks poeple out for small reasons like that? Dont worry , I dropped out from school too. I think you need to just go out and hang around get know some random people or something if you really want to =/


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 11:33:03
cz that sec school i was in only has the express stream,so if i fail badly(which i did=.=),i have to go down to normal academic stream,but as i said,that school doesnt have a normal academic stream,so i have to change school,but i din like(hated it actually)the idea of switching school,so i quit.thx for your advice.

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Doctor? on 2006-04-12 11:35:38
You could join a cult...
Joke.
Besides real life friends are over rated... but you can always find people to hang out with if you're into music.
That's where I ran into my friends...

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Crossfade on 2006-04-12 11:35:44
Forgive me if Im being an old man , but sometimes in life things cant always go the way we like it , and as much as i hate to say it and you've heard a million times its hard to survive in the society these days without proper education , at least try to finish highschool . Dont throw your life away for tiny things like this.


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 11:39:53
hahahaha,you're quite the old man i'll say,but i forgive you,lmao,jk.hm...ever since i left school i made a decision not to ever go to government schools ever again,that decision,...i'll stick to it for the rest of my life i guess,and even if i want to study one day,i'll most probably enrole myself into a private school,or night schools,but never ever to a government school again.

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by Crossfade on 2006-04-12 11:41:16
Forgive me once again for being a nosy asshole but , whats wrong with govt schools?


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by on 2006-04-12 11:43:22
Hay um.... maybe you could like, look for some friends that are your age on the net that lives in singapore. Hmm.... oh oh! maybe you could like go out side and make friends with, y'know people that work at stores. It's going to be kinda hard finding a friend durring school days that are 14.
Well I'll try find a way to help ^ ^


Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by tenshisenshi on 2006-04-12 11:49:54
thx Wilda~Hondai,and as for crossfade,lol,you are not being a nosy asshole at all,i don't mind such things,as for why i hate government schools,hm...(NOTE:what i am going to say is just what i am thinking and not to offend anyone or whatsoever)firstly,i don't quite like the idea of often class tests(ok,i know i'm weird,go ahead and mock me goddammit.)secondly,i feel very stressed studying together with 30-40 people in the same class.(go ahead and mock me again if you want to,up to you,lol.)

Re: Please tell me if you know,thx.
Link | by atenhotep on 2006-04-12 12:11:32 (edited 2006-04-12 12:12:08)
Oh... it's hard for a 14-year old to make friend besides school or through family. You can't go to cafes or so... Try to get a job (in supermarket, wherever they take 14-year olds...) and make there friends instead. Good Luck :)

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